The survival, longevity, and foundation of every pure marital relationship stands on these pillars and principles:

1) LOVE from the man

2) SUBMISSION from the woman

Now, every man who desires to find life-time partner without fail must study to know that the woman he wants to be with possesses godly submissiveness, because a marriage that is built on a man's submissiveness will one day fail. Likewise, women who desire to enter lifetime relationships without fail must also make sure that the man she wants to be with throughout her life truly loves her. This is because every relationship that is built on a woman's love will someday fail.

[Eph 5:22-31/ISV] 22Wives, submit yourselves to your husbands as to the Lord.23 For the husband is the head of his wife as the Messiah is the head of the church. It is he who is the Savior of the body.24 Indeed, just as the church is submissive to the Messiah, so wives must be submissive to their husbands in everything. 25 Husbands, love your wives as the Messiah loved the church and gave himself for it, 26so that he might make it holy by cleansing it, washing it with water and the word, 27and might present the church to himself in all its glory, without a spot or wrinkle or anything of the kind, but holy and without fault.28In the same way, husbands must love their wives as they love their own bodies. A man who loves his wife loves himself.29For no one has ever hated his own body, but he nourishes and tenderly cares for it, as the Messiah does the church.30For we are parts of his body—of his flesh and of his bones. 31“That is why a man will leave his father and mother and be united with his wife, and the two will become one flesh.”

Men, love your wives and women, submit to your husbands as Christ prescribed for both and remember, He is coming quickly.

Shalom

-Bishop Dr. Apau-